tOrpe

    Torpe simply means  being shy with the opposite sex. Yet, it is something more than that.Let us observe a typical torpe and how he goes about his love life.

1. The usual subject of his affection is someone who is nice. Easily falls for a lady na friendly, congenial, and smiles alot (he looks more for personality than for physical beauty.)

2. Being a torpe, he does not have enough courage to talk or do any form of interaction with his crush.(pinapawisan xa ng sobra sobra at the mere thought of saying something to her.)

3.Torpes have the sharp eyes and can easily got their crush from miles away.At pagkatapos nun, tatakbo xa whenever he sees her coming o kaya magtatago and when he has no place to turn or hide , pasimple na lang niyang lalampasan ang crush nia and pretends that he did not see his crush.

4. The most that he ever does is to take an occasional glimpse at her at iksaktong titingin ung crush niya.kasabay na rin ang mabilis na pagkabog ng kanyang puso.

5. Anong mangyayari if by some freak of  nature, our torpe is forced into a situation in which he has to talk to his crush? He usually  just stands  there and gathers dust, maghihintay at umaasa that the girl shall initiate a conversation.And if she does not do anything to start,they end up saying “hi” and “hello” to each other 10 times over.Then, blames himself for fulling up what seemed to be the chance of a lifetime  for him. Don’t get him wrong!!! hindi nman sa ayaw niyang kausapin ung crush nia , in fact, he zealously wants to talk with her.Ginawa nman niya lahat .He follows her home, sa mga klase niya, sa library, sa church eagerly waiting for her to notice and approach him and whenever he sees shes coming, the more his tounge swells.At pagnarinig na niya ang mala anghel nitong boses… then ZOOOMMM!!…. he runs away.

            *** kung gaano niya kagustong sabihin na gusto niya ung tao ay ganun din ang pagkatakot niya na baka di xa magustuhan nito, for who would like someone who’s too afraid to talk ,too frightened to say the wrong thing to the person whom he loves  above all else. I should know - I’m a torpe too even I’m a girl..yes thats true!!!even the boy likes you too..and all your friends knows that too… but he’s torpe too. (haha) But I think, bec. he dont like to destroy that friendship. And I believe that if we were meant for each other then were meant to be… cause I do believe that theirs a time for eveything… yes!!!!! theirs a time for eveything.!!!

in a nutshell…

     * we are not here to be punished. We are here to be educated.

    *Every event has the potential to transform us and disaster hs the greatest potential

to change our thinking.

     *The only way to beat ur fear is to face it. Bec. we are always  attracting the learning

experiences that we fear.

     *Every person who walks into ur life is a teacher.Even if they drive you nuts,

they teach you bec. they show  your   where your limits are.

     * it’s a funny thing, life. If you refuse to accept anything but the best, you very often get it.

      * Everything affects everything else. The way you walk affects the way you talk.

The way you dress affects the way you feel. The care you give to yourself , you will also give to others.

     *You are the only one that can make you feel special.if you have no PRIDE , nobody can give it to you.

     *Every disaster in ur life is not so much disaster , as a situation waiting 4 u to change ur mind about it.

    *The trick to giving is to give without wanting anything back. If  you expect something back,

          you are attached to a a result  - and when you are attached less thing happens.

    * LOVING people means giving them the freedom to be who they choose to be and where they choose to be.

        Love is allowing people to be in your life out of choice.

    *Always do more than you paid for, and one day you will be paid more than you do.

    *You give your best not bec. you want to impress people , You give your best bec.

thats the only way to enjoy your work.

    * Many people dont know  what they want - and they are upset bec. they ae not getting it.

If you dont know exactly what you want ,figure out what is closest to it - and go from there.

    *work is love made visible.

     *Fulfilment comes from developing  ur gifts not wishing  4 someone else’s.

     *Following your dream is no guarantee of an easy ride. Life usually becomes more challenging but you

embark on an outer journey w/c starts the inner journey.You have chance to blossom - to see who you really are.

     * We can’t give anyone else something that we don’t have. We can never accept other people as they are

        until we accept ourselves as we are.